Post Number: 1
|Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 - 10:50 pm: ||
I'm new here, but not totally new to spanking. I'm 25 and very happily married. My husband was vanilla when we married but has soon come to realize that I need spanking (as well as really wanting it ;)). And now, luckily, he enjoys it too. Always good to convert someone.
He's on a business trip right now and I've been a) missing him terribly and b) thinking about spanking non-stop. So that's why I'm here now.
Looking forward to getting to know everyone!
Post Number: 107
|Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 09:18 am: ||
Hi Darlingjenna. Welcome to the Den! I too think about spanking non stop. It's very distracting isn't it? Glad you can share your desires with a signifcant other as do I. Been married for 21 years (almost 22!) and only just "came out" to my wife 2 years ago. One of the best things I ever did.
Post Number: 149
|Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 12:45 pm: ||
Jen: Welcome. And congratulations for knowing what you want and for having the self-assurance to ask your husband to help you fulfill it. You youngsters, you have such comfort in your own skins!
I read a short story about a guy named Van, sort for vanilla. It wasn't about spanking or even about sex, but there was a line I liked: "It was his instinctive loyalty to vanilla that was his downfall---he, too, was trying to be wholesome and popular at the same time."
Post Number: 3759
|Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 01:46 pm: ||
Welcome to the Den, make yourself comfortable.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
Post Number: 7
|Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 03:04 pm: ||
Thanks for the greetings, all!
Yeah, it was originally hard to come out to my husband as it made me feel like a bit of a reprobate. It doesn't help that I told my last serious boyfriend before him that I fantasized about spanking, and he said, "No, sorry, can't help you, I just can't hurt a girl. There's nothing wrong with that, I just can't."
Well, that certainly made it feel wrong! But eventually, trusting my husband, I opened up and told him what I wanted. It was a little weird for him at first, but now he quite likes warming my bottom up.
I definitely do think it's different for our generation -- we're a bit more open about sexuality and there's a more anything-goes attitude as long as you aren't hurting anyone.
Post Number: 42
|Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2011 - 08:47 am: ||
I have felt the same way....I tried to come out to a previous boyfriend and he made me feel as if I was crazy.....so even tho there was little things said & done in my marriage, I hid how much I yearned & needed it from my husband till just a few months ago (we have been married since close after H.S....for 16 yrs next month)....thankfully I finally shared everything with him, in an email, & he is VERY turned on about it!! So turned on, sometimes he cant stop himself....lol....Altho we dont really practice DD, it is wonderful to now have this as a part of my life!! Hope everything keeps going smoothly for ya....Enjoy the Den, there is some wonderful people & information here!!