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Darlingjenna
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Username: Darlingjenna

Post Number: 1
Registered: 08-2011
Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 - 10:50 pm:   Edit Post

I'm new here, but not totally new to spanking. I'm 25 and very happily married. My husband was vanilla when we married but has soon come to realize that I need spanking (as well as really wanting it ;)). And now, luckily, he enjoys it too. Always good to convert someone.

He's on a business trip right now and I've been a) missing him terribly and b) thinking about spanking non-stop. So that's why I'm here now.

Looking forward to getting to know everyone!

Jen
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Yorkie69
Spanko
Username: Yorkie69

Post Number: 107
Registered: 08-2010
Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 09:18 am:   Edit Post

Hi Darlingjenna. Welcome to the Den! I too think about spanking non stop. It's very distracting isn't it? Glad you can share your desires with a signifcant other as do I. Been married for 21 years (almost 22!) and only just "came out" to my wife 2 years ago. One of the best things I ever did.
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Warmpalm
Spanko
Username: Warmpalm

Post Number: 149
Registered: 05-2011
Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 12:45 pm:   Edit Post

Jen: Welcome. And congratulations for knowing what you want and for having the self-assurance to ask your husband to help you fulfill it. You youngsters, you have such comfort in your own skins!

I read a short story about a guy named Van, sort for vanilla. It wasn't about spanking or even about sex, but there was a line I liked: "It was his instinctive loyalty to vanilla that was his downfall---he, too, was trying to be wholesome and popular at the same time."
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3759
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 01:46 pm:   Edit Post

Welcome to the Den, make yourself comfortable.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Darlingjenna
New member
Username: Darlingjenna

Post Number: 7
Registered: 08-2011
Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 03:04 pm:   Edit Post

Thanks for the greetings, all!

Yeah, it was originally hard to come out to my husband as it made me feel like a bit of a reprobate. It doesn't help that I told my last serious boyfriend before him that I fantasized about spanking, and he said, "No, sorry, can't help you, I just can't hurt a girl. There's nothing wrong with that, I just can't."

Well, that certainly made it feel wrong! But eventually, trusting my husband, I opened up and told him what I wanted. It was a little weird for him at first, but now he quite likes warming my bottom up.

I definitely do think it's different for our generation -- we're a bit more open about sexuality and there's a more anything-goes attitude as long as you aren't hurting anyone.
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Mbottom
Spanko
Username: Mbottom

Post Number: 42
Registered: 04-2011
Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2011 - 08:47 am:   Edit Post

Hi Jen

I have felt the same way....I tried to come out to a previous boyfriend and he made me feel as if I was crazy.....so even tho there was little things said & done in my marriage, I hid how much I yearned & needed it from my husband till just a few months ago (we have been married since close after H.S....for 16 yrs next month)....thankfully I finally shared everything with him, in an email, & he is VERY turned on about it!! So turned on, sometimes he cant stop himself....lol....Altho we dont really practice DD, it is wonderful to now have this as a part of my life!! Hope everything keeps going smoothly for ya....Enjoy the Den, there is some wonderful people & information here!!

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