Post Number: 1
|Posted on Monday, May 09, 2011 - 09:36 am: ||
I've been interested in spanking. I was not spanked until the past year by my lover. But then he stopped because he didn't enjoy giving them.
Post Number: 3
|Posted on Monday, May 09, 2011 - 01:30 pm: ||
I'm relatively new here as well
Post Number: 168
|Posted on Monday, May 09, 2011 - 03:03 pm: ||
Hello and welcome,
Please read the rules before posting.
Post Number: 2
|Posted on Tuesday, May 10, 2011 - 11:41 am: ||
It can be hard for guys who have been brought up not to use violence on women to justify an erotic spanking. That may be what your lover had a problem with. I was having a session with a woman who enjoyed the spanking I was administering just fine, but wanted me to do more---to slap her in the face, and maybe more than that. I ended the session, because I saw we were not on the same page at all. A fanny can sustain a fair amount of pain---it is the traditional receiving area for corporal punishment (for those who believe in corporal punishment) because of this. Slapping somebody in the face is different. I could never do it.
Are you still with your lover? Is spanking something you can live without? Many people need to feel sexually compatible on all levels with their partners, others don't feel that need.