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Butterfly84
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Post Number: 37
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Friday, May 26, 2006 - 04:07 am:   Edit Post

This came up jokingly in another thread. Where do spankos go for therapy?

Well, I'm returning to school in the fall, for psychology. I've been looking into marriage counseling, so I'm curious...

How would someone advertise to the spanking community, discreetly, in public? I was thinking if I ever opened my own practice I could call it "OTK Marriage Counseling" and just tell vanillas it stood for "Only Teach Kindness".

What do ya'll think?
~*butterfly*~

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Mistydawn
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Post Number: 60
Registered: 05-2006


Posted on Friday, May 26, 2006 - 08:23 am:   Edit Post

I started seeing a counselor at the exact same time as we turned are relationship on its head and started looking into new ways of doing things. Submission/spanking etc.
For the first few weeks I skirted round the issues but still talked about how I had given up control (or more how I was trying to give up control) and let my husband take the reins and how much happier we were now. I suspected she had some inkling of what was really going on but still we used euphemism's(spelling sorry). She also said the main thing was that we were trying to turn our relationship round instead of just letting it drift.

Probably the fault of this site. I know think everyone must spank so last week I told her straight well sort of I told her about the submission part of it and the sort of discipline side of it. I still couldn't quite mention the word spanking although I have said I need a lot of physical stimulus and so maybe she knows that too.
I sort of thought this is silly- how can you get help if your not telling her the whole picture. It's confidential and she is trained to deal with all sorts of quirks.
Of course I still gaged her for 5 months b4 saying anything.

I did read on another site that there are counselors out there that do specialize in kink. Fantastic idea. I think -Put in a few abbreviations like you say and those in the know would just know. And like any good practice it would get round by word of mouth or should I say hand on bottom
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Wolfie
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Post Number: 1740
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Posted on Friday, May 26, 2006 - 09:47 am:   Edit Post

I love the idea Butterfly! Like Misty I have heard about counselors that specialise in kink, and thought it was wonderful...if you could find them. Using abbreviations like OTK, HOH, D/D would certainly help people find you.

Good luck in your new career!
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.

Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Mistydawn
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Post Number: 63
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Posted on Friday, May 26, 2006 - 11:34 am:   Edit Post

For hands on advice and if you want to get to the bottom of your marriage problems.........
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Paddledom
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Post Number: 24
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Posted on Friday, May 26, 2006 - 05:42 pm:   Edit Post

Leave your imprint, Make an Impact
Get behind the only solution :-)
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Butterfly84
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Post Number: 39
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Posted on Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 01:19 am:   Edit Post

Thanks for the responses guys. I didn't even know there were people who specialized in "kink" but I'll look more into it. Keep the slogans coming!!!
~*butterfly*~

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Bluepencil
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Post Number: 45
Registered: 04-2005
Posted on Saturday, May 27, 2006 - 10:42 am:   Edit Post

Keep us posted on your search results.
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Ladygator2904
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Post Number: 132
Registered: 03-2006


Posted on Sunday, May 28, 2006 - 10:25 pm:   Edit Post

Let me know when you want to franchise in Fla.. I will be your partner butterfly :-)
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Buenaventura
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Post Number: 32
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Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 01:11 pm:   Edit Post

Yeah let,s franchise Venezuela and The Dominican Republic too.I,ll be your partner down here Butterfly.
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Buenaventura
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Post Number: 33
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Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 01:13 pm:   Edit Post

When you come to visit your franchises down here you,ll always have someone to spank you.
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Butterfly84
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Post Number: 48
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Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 08:51 pm:   Edit Post

Oooh, partners! Yayism!

What? Spanking the therapist??

Well, I'd do what I could to help the couple, and if that's what was needed...
~*butterfly*~

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Ladygator2904
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Post Number: 138
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Posted on Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 07:53 am:   Edit Post

I have been doing our research :-) THere is a man who is in Texas that has an awesome business up and running! There is another man who caters only to college students. He also seems to be prospering. Do you think we can get Government grant money to start up <g>
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Buenaventura
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Posted on Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 09:32 am:   Edit Post

Yaaay spank the therapist the ultimate fantasy.
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Youngone
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Post Number: 325
Registered: 02-2006
Posted on Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 03:50 pm:   Edit Post

im in school for psychology too and i dont know if I could actually admit to my lifestyle that openly in my practice and have my practice be about that. I have researched it in the past there are books about spanking adults and its effects on depression and other factors. You should check it out!
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Fanny
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Post Number: 2442
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 04:07 pm:   Edit Post

Do you mind sharing the titles of those books, Youngone?
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Nexus
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Posted on Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 04:19 pm:   Edit Post

I would be intrested in the names of the Books as well.
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Robinredtail
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Posted on Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 05:02 pm:   Edit Post


Me too...
"Gimme that strange relationship
Never knew pleasure and pain like this..."

-Darren Hayes
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Youngone
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Post Number: 326
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Posted on Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 05:38 pm:   Edit Post

Sure I dont mind to share but I am not at home today I wont be home until Morning and I dont know the complete titles off the top of my head I have over 400 books and about 300 of them are psychology based books so dont want to give you the wrong titles lol!! Ok so the truth is out im a book nerd but hey I cant help it!!
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Paddledom
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Posted on Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 06:43 pm:   Edit Post

Nothing wrong with being a book nerd :-)

Im sure more people will appreciate the names of these books.

It is good to see butterfly willing to do anything necessary to get the therapy going ;)
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Bluepencil
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Post Number: 49
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Posted on Wednesday, May 31, 2006 - 08:43 am:   Edit Post

Going back to the comments about could we get government funding to establish spanking therapy centers. . . .maybe if we could prove it to be a part of the war on terrorism, we'd be rolling in federal grants!!

But seriously, where do I sign up?
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Buenaventura
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Post Number: 46
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Posted on Wednesday, May 31, 2006 - 10:38 am:   Edit Post

The way the government down here throws money away they might fund it but they,d want to spank Bush first.
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Wolfie
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Post Number: 1756
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Posted on Wednesday, May 31, 2006 - 12:59 pm:   Edit Post

I'm all for that!
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Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Buenaventura
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Posted on Wednesday, May 31, 2006 - 01:31 pm:   Edit Post

Knew that without your saying it Wolfie
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Buenaventura
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Post Number: 50
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Posted on Wednesday, May 31, 2006 - 01:33 pm:   Edit Post

I don,t agree with this guy on much but on that he,s right on.
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Buenaventura
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Post Number: 51
Registered: 04-2006
Posted on Wednesday, May 31, 2006 - 01:36 pm:   Edit Post

Does 50 mean I,m a junior!!?? Gee whiz!!!
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Fanny
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Post Number: 2445
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Wednesday, May 31, 2006 - 02:24 pm:   Edit Post

This is not a political site, people. If we are gonna talk bush, let it be the other kind.
Queen of Innocence

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Butterfly84
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Post Number: 53
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Wednesday, May 31, 2006 - 11:18 pm:   Edit Post

Wow, I had no idea this would be such a popular idea, lol. As for admitting to this kink in public...the only other people that would really know about would already be spankos. And they can't really out me without outing themselves *grin*
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Blistering_blonde
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Post Number: 146
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 02:05 pm:   Edit Post

hmm one has to wonder on this ...would the office be sound proof ..would there be spanking stools and benches ..not to mention the dreaded straight back chair? ..would you offer demos?
How about samples of tools ..I mean how can they get to the BOTTOM of the issuse with out a means of delivery ??
I would DRAG hubby there for a lil improvement ..ok it would be me getting it ..but still.
A HOT RED butt is the sign of LOVE and trust
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Buenaventura
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Post Number: 58
Registered: 04-2006
Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 03:26 pm:   Edit Post

Demos,Wow Blistering you,re opening up a whole new fantasy world.gee that,s a great idea.If it became popular enough you,d have to open branch offices in the suburbs. Have house calls.Just like ghost busters chase out those evil spirits with a good spirited spanking.(Am I going to far)
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Buenaventura
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Post Number: 59
Registered: 04-2006
Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 03:28 pm:   Edit Post

I still like the idea of spanking the therapist Butterfly!
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Blistering_blonde
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Post Number: 150
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Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 03:46 pm:   Edit Post

OH Buenaventura ..thats a great Idea ..a box van for door to door service ..whats better then calling up a therapist and saying .
Yes you see my wife is at fault AS ALWAYS ..and she needs her wicked ways corrected ..could you please come and SHOW me your impliment prescription that would get to the bottom of this mood ??.. and the van could be used if the house has guests or what not ...hmmm Therapists that travel.... Heals On Wheels, putting your relationship on the hot seat where it belongs
A HOT RED butt is the sign of LOVE and trust
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Paddledom
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Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 06:37 pm:   Edit Post

I am all for the idea of spanking butterfly - I mean the therapist :-)
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Butterfly84
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Post Number: 58
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Thursday, June 01, 2006 - 08:36 pm:   Edit Post

A therapist that makes house calls? Interesting... this just gets betta and betta
~*butterfly*~

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Shylah
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Post Number: 1057
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Saturday, June 03, 2006 - 08:46 am:   Edit Post

Over the years I've been a sort of "spanking therapist".

I should open my own office. Make it up like a dungeon.

Shylah's Spanking Therapy. Come sit down...IF YOU CAN and wait for your appointment.

SIT! STAY! Good Boy.

*snicker*

Sorry...I'm having a silly mood day.
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Tammynx
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Post Number: 643
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Saturday, June 03, 2006 - 09:25 am:   Edit Post

Well Shylah sounds like you need to hang out a shingle....look at all the good people that would come to see you!!!

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Butterfly84
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Username: Butterfly84

Post Number: 66
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Sunday, June 04, 2006 - 01:23 am:   Edit Post

I know this is horribly off topic, but I started the thread, so can I ask anyways?

What on EARTH do roofing tiles have to do with anything???

(See previous post by tammy)
~*butterfly*~

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Paddledom
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Post Number: 35
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Posted on Sunday, June 04, 2006 - 03:16 am:   Edit Post

well - all I can think of is spanking you with shingles while you are providing therapy ? :-)

maybe its a shingles paddle mixer ? :-)
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Shylah
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Post Number: 1064
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Sunday, June 04, 2006 - 07:23 am:   Edit Post

Ermmmmm....OK

I'm composed.

It is an old saying in the states that when a doctor or someone like that opens up a new office...they "hang out a shingle". In other words, it's a sign with the name of their practice on it.

It came to be in the old west mostly when sign makers were scarce so a docotr would take an old roof shingle and paint his name on it and then hang it up.

OK..get it?

Don't think I'd like to get spanked by one tho...too many splinters.
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Tammynx
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Post Number: 653
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Sunday, June 04, 2006 - 10:33 am:   Edit Post

I thought everyone knew that Dr's hung out a shingle.... that saying has been around forever!!

(I was referring to Shylah's previous post)

She WAS offering to open a business so it really wasn't OFF topic!! :-)

(Message edited by tammynx on June 04, 2006)
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Butterfly84
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Post Number: 67
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Sunday, June 04, 2006 - 06:58 pm:   Edit Post

Oh, Tammy! I wasn't saying that you went off topic, I was apologizing for going off topic myself, because I had to ask what it meant!! Sorry if you felt I was annoyed with you And thanks for the explanation about the shingles, I hadn't heard that one before.

(Message edited by butterfly84 on June 04, 2006)
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Buenaventura
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Username: Buenaventura

Post Number: 68
Registered: 04-2006
Posted on Monday, June 05, 2006 - 11:27 am:   Edit Post

Blistering you and I will have to be partners you,re as crazy as me.Love the idea of the sound proof van.Butterfly you need therapy.(Before anybody jumps on me spanking therapy i mean).
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Blistering_blonde
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Post Number: 172
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Monday, June 05, 2006 - 08:09 pm:   Edit Post

Buenaventura..
Love the partners plan ..then we could help BOTH ends ....and let them know the healing release from the spankings
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Buenaventura
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Username: Buenaventura

Post Number: 72
Registered: 04-2006
Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 01:09 pm:   Edit Post

As soon as I get to Sto. Domingo I,ll set up two clinics one for therapy and one for celulite we,ll make a bundle.The van for house calls(what a great idea).I,ll let you all know.Your doms can come down on busmans holidays and you all can recieve special therapy from yours truly.

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