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Blulizrdboots
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Username: Blulizrdboots

Post Number: 52
Registered: 05-2005
Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 12:52 am:   Edit Post

I know I haven't been around much for neone that remembers me that is. But I was wondering if anyone could give me some... pointers I guess.

Okay there's a guy that I work with that he and i have been, well flirting with since before Christmas. Anyways while working with him and of course bugging him relentlessly, I was threatening to throw a pack of butter at him when he threatens to give me a "whoopin". My question is this: How do I let him know I like that? Or should I even let him know? Should I just say. "Please do."? Or just ease into it?
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Otter
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Username: Otter

Post Number: 1
Registered: 03-2006


Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 01:11 am:   Edit Post

This is my first post but it really spoke to me. I have an online friend who has talked about her old relationships and how she got into spanking with them. I believe some of the lines she would use might be something like, "why don't you try?" or "I wish you would" or "yeah, right, try it..." I think then, if he is not into it or not ready for it, he can easily play it off as a joke, ya know? Just my thoughts. I'll introduce myself soon.

otter*
"It was something magic out of something frightening. That's how I live my life, I take it as it comes. In my mind I see the rocking horse inside the tree." -Sara Evans
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Kennysspankee
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Username: Kennysspankee

Post Number: 180
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 02:47 am:   Edit Post

Throw the pack of butter....
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Reader_girl
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Username: Reader_girl

Post Number: 103
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 10:01 am:   Edit Post

I'm with Kennysspankee.

Although Otter's suggestions sound good, too.
Reader Girl
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Pinkcheeks
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Username: Pinkcheeks

Post Number: 210
Registered: 12-2005


Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 10:43 am:   Edit Post

If you are a brat, then you could always say; "promises, promises"
I am not big into bratting, but I think I would use any of the suggested phrases and see where that takes you :-)
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 2071
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 11:32 am:   Edit Post

Ok, my vote? DON'T throw the butter, I would use one of the lines suggested. It makes you look more mature, exciting and if he can read between the lines, I think he will respect you more for your suggestiveness.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Kennysspankee
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Username: Kennysspankee

Post Number: 181
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 04:23 pm:   Edit Post

Yeah, but throwing the butter keeps the playfulness going and is an easier way to 'break the ice', to get a conversation going on how you're 'into it'. Coming right out and saying it is hard and embarressing (for most of us).
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Pagan
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Username: Pagan

Post Number: 380
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 04:31 pm:   Edit Post

I wouldn't throw the butter.

But I would smile suggestively and say, "I invite you to try."
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Beachley
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Username: Beachley

Post Number: 335
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 04:41 pm:   Edit Post

I agree don't throw the butter, but do try out one of the lines mentioned in the other posts. That way the ball is back in his court and he can do as he wishes with it.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
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Username: Wolfie

Post Number: 1471
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 04:49 pm:   Edit Post

Dont take this wrong guys....but men can be dense! And I know how hard it is to just come out and ask, so....

You could give him a wink and say "Hmmmm, throw it and get a spanking...dont throw it and dont get a spanking?"

Then grin and throw it at him.
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.

Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Reader_girl
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Username: Reader_girl

Post Number: 104
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 05:56 pm:   Edit Post

...Wolfie!
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Kryssi
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Username: Kryssi

Post Number: 29
Registered: 12-2005


Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 09:44 pm:   Edit Post

I agree with Wolfie :-)
"I'm so tired of being here... supressed by all my childish fears"

Evanescence ~ My Immortal
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Wolfie
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Username: Wolfie

Post Number: 1478
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 09:58 pm:   Edit Post

What? *innocent look*
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.

Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Rex138
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Username: Rex138

Post Number: 63
Registered: 11-2005


Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 11:31 pm:   Edit Post

Wolfie's right.

We're pretty dense when it comes to that sort of thing. Pretty much have to be hit over the head with it. Or in this case, with the butter.
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
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Sassyaawaa
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Username: Sassyaawaa

Post Number: 35
Registered: 03-2006
Posted on Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 11:37 pm:   Edit Post

I agree with Wolfie too!

Kudos to you Rex for admitting that you guys can be dense sometimes about certain things.

Contributing a pound of butter and crossing my fingers.

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Kennysspankee
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Username: Kennysspankee

Post Number: 182
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Wednesday, March 29, 2006 - 12:37 am:   Edit Post

I agree with me AND Wolfie.
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Blulizrdboots
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Username: Blulizrdboots

Post Number: 53
Registered: 05-2005
Posted on Wednesday, March 29, 2006 - 01:11 am:   Edit Post

lmao Wolfie i love ur answer. i agree with u and w/ kennysspankee. I gotta remember all of these.
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Spanko69
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Username: Spanko69

Post Number: 1
Registered: 03-2006
Posted on Wednesday, March 29, 2006 - 03:16 am:   Edit Post

hey all im new at this, i just moved to a new area and i want to know how to go about finding local spankos
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 2075
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Wednesday, March 29, 2006 - 10:01 am:   Edit Post

Hello spanko, we are not a connection site, but please feel welcome to read and post, you never know. I would guess the easiest way would be to find some clubs in your area.
BTW: Why don't you post to the meet and greet area, so everyone can know we have a new member.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Wolfie
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Username: Wolfie

Post Number: 1487
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Wednesday, March 29, 2006 - 11:31 am:   Edit Post

Let folks know what state your in, that way they can contact you about groups/clubs in your area.

And dont forget to duck those thrown butter packets!
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.

Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Bluepencil
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Username: Bluepencil

Post Number: 33
Registered: 04-2005
Posted on Saturday, April 01, 2006 - 04:54 pm:   Edit Post

Cmon' "Boots" let's get back to the thread! Did you throw the butter or not? They do call them "pats" of butter, don't they??
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 2089
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Saturday, April 01, 2006 - 05:32 pm:   Edit Post

Wait minute. Are we talking about a pat of butter or a pound of butter, there is a HUGE difference!!
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Smartnnaughty
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Username: Smartnnaughty

Post Number: 341
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Tuesday, April 04, 2006 - 02:17 pm:   Edit Post

Blulizrdboots,

I remember you! ARe you going to post any stories soon?

SNN

(maybe I should check the reading area FIRST)
I try to take one day at a time -- but sometimes several days attack me at once.
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Blulizrdboots
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Username: Blulizrdboots

Post Number: 54
Registered: 05-2005
Posted on Wednesday, April 05, 2006 - 01:07 am:   Edit Post

lol I've thrown the butter but that's all i'm saying. hehehehe

and SNN I plan on it.. I've been trying figure out what other things I can use for my Cory Stories. Hey, if anyways had any requests I may use them.

later.
~blu~
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Padwangirl
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Username: Padwangirl

Post Number: 3
Registered: 04-2006
Posted on Wednesday, April 05, 2006 - 07:29 am:   Edit Post

Try these "Don't threaten me with a good time!",
"I can take it!", "I dare you!", "I bet you can't me me say mercy!", say any of these with a devilish grin and you are as good as spanked! It is both an invitation and a challenge. Been there and done that trust me.
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Sassyaawaa
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Username: Sassyaawaa

Post Number: 79
Registered: 03-2006


Posted on Wednesday, April 05, 2006 - 11:42 pm:   Edit Post

(pout) Hey Blulizrdboots..........that aint' fair....you THREW the butter BUT you won't tell us what happened? Hmmmmmppppffff ...Yep! Just NOT fair!!

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