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Redhinney
Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 200
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, February 10, 2006 - 10:38 am: | 
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I was wondering if anyone here knows if thier S/O has a mentor and would you want to knew or meet the person?
When I worked at the firm before I started my own company I was given a mentor to help me rise thru the ranks- it really worked because I was a principle before I left actually the frist non CPA principle they had. I knew that was as high as I would get because I wasn't a CPA and the firm was a Accounting firm.
But seriously there are times that I think William either meets or talks with someone about our life style. The reason I say that is at of the clear blue he will come up with a new "guideline" or a new way to spank or get the submission point across. Like last night he spanked me again for trying to hide something from him. Usually after a spanking is over he stops thinking about the reason but last night was different. I have a pretty good idea who this person is. I thought about asking WIlliam if he does but than i think maybe I don't want to knew because if it is the person I think we see this couple socially. I'm not sure if I would feel funny once it is confirmed that he knews about our life stlye. Hey it now make sense of alot of things that I seen the wiife do. Than I think it would be great. Sometimes I think that if I had some one in real life that knows that I am discplined by my husband some of the stress I have would just melt away.
So tell me if your S/O has a mentor would you like to know and would you want to meet this person and socialize with them?
Love can't always be seen or hear but will always be felt with your heart
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Pinkcheeks
Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 83
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Friday, February 10, 2006 - 01:47 pm: |
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My Hubby never had a mentor...as a matter of fact, I was interested in the DD lifestyle long before he was ( I was just was too embarassed to tell him until I finally decided to just do it). It's comming up on 2 years now for us - and there has been a lot of experimenting, mistakes, and "do overs" along the way. I got him interested in certain spanking blogs - so I know he reads them now. I would not change this lifestyle for the world - and I am glad He and I see the numerous benefits to spanking. No one in our family or our friends know what lifestyle we live (although he is not afraid to mention "spanking" in front of them). Thinking about your question - if my Hubby DID have a mentor I do not think I would want to know or meet/socialize....I prefer to keep this lifestyle strictly between the two of us. *good question Redhinney~~~
My favorite color? pink of course 
"But honey...wait...I didn't mean it!!"
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Beachley
Advanced Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 293
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, February 10, 2006 - 03:41 pm: |
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Red I have wondered the same things many many times myself with Mr. B. Things just sort of happen, he says or does something unexpected but that was earlier on. We have been it it for 2 years now. I do know that he read what I gave him, but I think he also searched somethings out on his own. I also know that he knows Wolfie's Steve and has the means to communicate if he so chooses.
The couple of times I have asked his response was "you know this is not rocket science" so I let it be.
As I was the one who wanted spanking and he sort of went along with it for my sake and to make me happy, I'm just very glad that he has done what he has. It just does seem to come naturally to him and I do think he sees the benefits of it also.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Redhinney
Advanced Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 205
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, February 10, 2006 - 05:11 pm: |
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Beachley,
We have been at this for 25 years so for something new to come along it does get me wondering Take the incident of the ATM I got spanked for for not going , than spanked for not telling the whole truth and last night again for trying to hide the truth from him. There have been times tat I asked him to spank me again because I didn't feel that I was over the wrong (guilt) but he has never spanked for the same incident 2 days in a row unless he would before hand.
What ever it is it's fine with me but I don't know if my butt can take another round with anything tonight.
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Tammynx
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 299
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, February 10, 2006 - 06:05 pm: |
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I don't think my husband has a mentor...but I know he does read a lot and when we get together with others I think they compare notes. |
Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 392
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 12, 2006 - 06:55 am: |
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I think Jake's "mentor" is the net with all its' sites and blogs, LOL.
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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Redhinney
Advanced Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 267
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, February 24, 2006 - 01:27 pm: |
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I finally ask Bill if he has a mentor. Before he answered he asked me 2 questions and there were would I be upset if he didn't and would I be upset if he did. MY answer was as honest as I could be and that it would depend who it was. He answer was YES HE DOES HAVE ONE he told me who it was and it wasn't who I had thought. I asked why he felt he needed one after 25 years and he answered that because we were moving more into a D/s relationship in addition to a DD relationship he felt he needed someone to run things by. ow thisperson is a very good looking man who I always thought was really a closet Dom . He is exteremly well known and has managed not to allow any of hisprivate life become public expect that he is divorced and the women moved out of the country and he has full custody of his children who are now grown. He hasn't remarried is very self condient and knows what he wants. He told Bill that he always thought I had a very large submissive side and he knew that Bill and I dabbled a little. I guess I am in for some changes which as i mentioned in a munber of post is fine with me.
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Redhinney
Advanced Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 295
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, March 04, 2006 - 11:38 am: |
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Tonight we are going to a big charity event and it seems so is my husband's mentor. In fsact they (meaning his date) will be sitting at our table. To sit at the table we are at each couple must pledge at least $5,000, so I knew that this charity dance must have importance to him and it's ot just to see my reaction. I will say that meeting him even with him being a "friend" will be a bit strange.
My quote for the day "Becarefule what you wish for because it may actually happen"
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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Redhinney
Advanced Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 298
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, March 05, 2006 - 11:20 am: |
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Just wanted to say that meeting up with Bill's Mentor was abit strained and once I get it all settled in my head I will post.
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
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