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Kendra
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Username: Kendra

Post Number: 211
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 02:09 am:   Edit Post

I remember Mr. R (I think that's his name) saying something about the different stages of a discipline spanking and it's very important not to leave a bottom in the anger stage? Well if you do stop in the anger stage is it wrong to give another spanking later? If you do administer another spanking later because you feel that the previous spanking wasn't enough do you use the same impliment that you used before or a different one? Or does it really matter if you get the job done?

I hope this makes sense...
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 1002
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 07:56 am:   Edit Post

I believe that may have been my R who made the comment about not leaving me in the anger stage. Oh yes, an additional spanking is administered ASASP. What impliment is used really doesn't matter as long as the job gets done.
"Queen of Innocence"

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"oooooo", she says!!
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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 439
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 11:52 am:   Edit Post

Kendra, I think the point is that the job gets done. Having the ability to read your partner and know when the point has been made is more important than what impiments is used.

As a side note, are you still planning on turning the tables of discipline like you had said a few weeks back? Or is this for when you need to be disciplined?
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Kendra
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Username: Kendra

Post Number: 214
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 03:58 pm:   Edit Post

turning the tables? When did I say that?
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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 446
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 04:15 pm:   Edit Post

You posted this in the "Tops Bottoming" thread.



Posted on Monday, May 30, 2005 - 08:17 pm:

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I have decided that in order for our lifestyle to work, that the tables need to be turned. The only problem is that I'm way to small to take him otk, and I know he won't submit. Wha'do I do???
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 1025
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 04:21 pm:   Edit Post

Jeez....this man has a memory like a steel trap.
"Queen of Innocence"

Be willing to pass up good, for great!

"oooooo", she says!!
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Kendra
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Username: Kendra

Post Number: 215
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 04:48 pm:   Edit Post

oh yeah, I remember now. No, I haven't turned the tables.. yet. Although it's going to happen probably as soon as we move. He needs to learn to take control and if that means I have to show him how.. so be it.

:-)
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 1026
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 04:55 pm:   Edit Post

Spoken like a real woman Kryssi...
"Queen of Innocence"

Be willing to pass up good, for great!

"oooooo", she says!!
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Kendra
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Username: Kendra

Post Number: 217
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 05:34 pm:   Edit Post

lol :-)
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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 447
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 06:19 pm:   Edit Post

She's all woman ladies and gentlemen, all WOMAN!
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Kendra
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Username: Kendra

Post Number: 218
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 06:27 pm:   Edit Post

what do you mean by that rocco??
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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 450
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 06:31 pm:   Edit Post

It was a compliment Kendra. Going along with what Fanny said "spoken like a real woman"
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Kendra
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Username: Kendra

Post Number: 219
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 06:36 pm:   Edit Post

Well thank you for the compliment :-) I didn't think you were putting me down, I just wasn't sure what you were saying :-)

So, please don't think I took that wrong, 'cause I didn't :-)
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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 453
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 06:50 pm:   Edit Post


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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 455
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 07:02 pm:   Edit Post

So this new turn of events (when it happens) will make you a switch. Right on Kendra!
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Kendra
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Username: Kendra

Post Number: 220
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 07:07 pm:   Edit Post

I wouldn't say I was a switch, because it's only going to happen once, but ya know..

On a side note My daughter rolled over for the first time about 15 minutes ago :-)
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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 458
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 07:10 pm:   Edit Post

Hey look at that, she's growing up. That's so cool Kendra!
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Biggirl
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Username: Biggirl

Post Number: 56
Registered: 05-2005
Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 10:29 pm:   Edit Post

Kendra:

I am not sure how to word this right so bare with me. I have read all the posts. When I saw Rocco's "quote" from a previous post of yours I was just........it just seems so odd to use this word but I can't think of another......I was so proud of you.

You have a strong spirit & it really came out in that comment.

I am very happy for you that you had a "first" experience with your babe today. Those always seem to be very "heart warming" for parents.

Brightest Blessings,BigGirl
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Biggirl
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Username: Biggirl

Post Number: 57
Registered: 05-2005
Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 10:47 pm:   Edit Post

Everyone:

I read a website...or rather essays on a website. I hope it is ok to mention it. It is called "the Creatively Spanked Wife"

I read an essay that I think sort of pertains to what you might be talking about but not exactly. Your question made me think of it.

It is actually something I want to incorporate into my spanking relationship with G.

What this essay talked about was in a Male Spanker Woman Spankee relationship (though I am sure it not be limited in that way)(don't wish to offend anyone) where the Male spanker would spank the female spankee for some reason (most likely previously agreed upon ex:having a negative attitude or being disrespectful) as an immediate correction of the "behavior" & the spanking itself is meantto be a form of CONSENTUAL (sp?) domestic discipline.

In this essay it talked about how that evening there would be a "clean up" spanking. In other words a spanking where the purpose was to "clean up" any negative feelings either partner had about the first "behavior correction" spanking that had taken place.

It went on to describe how in some instances this would led to....well....really hot make up sex.

Personally I found that website to be very helpful to me. It showed me how there not only were others with similar desires as I. But the essays themselves I found very informative on the emotional aspects of that type of a spanking relationship. One of the essays was titled: Domestic Discipline when the fantasy becomes reality.

I hope I haven't strayed off topic by misunderstanding your question. And I hope I didn't butcher what I was trying to say.

Brightest Blessings,BigGirl

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