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Nd2bspankd
New member
Username: Nd2bspankd

Post Number: 44
Registered: 11-2006


Posted on Monday, November 06, 2006 - 05:09 pm:   Edit Post

I am currently reading a book by Marty Klein, Ph.D., called Beyond Orgasm: Dare to Be Honest About the Sex You Really Want. It actually covers secrecy, feeling guilty about your desires, and how to overcome it. How to talk to your partner and why you should. It's a quick read. Chapters Include: "The High Cost of Secrecy, Sexual Secrets, and Accepting Yourself-Taking A Chance." It even asks the question, is it fair to not tell your partner. Not doing so "dampens your desire, limits the intimacy, undermines the pleasure...etc." The book is $14.95 and well worth it for those who are hesitant to bring it up. Just wanted to pass it along.
"It's not easy being pink...er, I mean, green."
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 2872
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Monday, November 06, 2006 - 06:56 pm:   Edit Post

Thanks for the information Nb, but next time you really should ask Bethie about advertising something like this. It may be in conflict with out sponsers.
Also, we don't want people joining as members just so they can get free advertisement. I am not suggesting you are trying to sell this book, but others may get that implication
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Buenaventura
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Username: Buenaventura

Post Number: 285
Registered: 04-2006


Posted on Monday, November 06, 2006 - 08:02 pm:   Edit Post

Oh my.
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Nd2bspankd
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Username: Nd2bspankd

Post Number: 47
Registered: 11-2006


Posted on Monday, November 06, 2006 - 08:40 pm:   Edit Post

Thanks Fanny. Already check with Bethie before posting this. I'm a good newbie and did my homework.
"It's not easy being pink...er, I mean, green."
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Nd2bspankd
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Username: Nd2bspankd

Post Number: 48
Registered: 11-2006


Posted on Monday, November 06, 2006 - 08:42 pm:   Edit Post

Oh, and I am not at all affiliated with author or book. Just so you know. Just noticed a few of us have trouble coming out and telling our partners and this book really puts it in a different light.
"It's not easy being pink...er, I mean, green."
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 2874
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Monday, November 06, 2006 - 09:35 pm:   Edit Post

Thanks Nd, you are a very good newbie (better watch that or you may not get spanked enough!) I'm glad that you made it clear that Bethie approved this in advance. As long as we are all on the same page, things are all good. Plus, the information will be helpful to many others.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Nd2bspankd
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Username: Nd2bspankd

Post Number: 49
Registered: 11-2006


Posted on Tuesday, November 07, 2006 - 12:08 am:   Edit Post

Thanks...I'll be careful not to be too good.
"It's not easy being pink...er, I mean, green."
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 2876
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Tuesday, November 07, 2006 - 12:27 am:   Edit Post

I think it is a safe assumption that we do not have any "too good" people on this site.


Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades

Post Number: 753
Registered: 11-2005


Posted on Tuesday, November 07, 2006 - 01:32 am:   Edit Post

Fanny,

I think that's quite the understatement!!!
The Princess of Spanking™
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Shylah
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Username: Shylah

Post Number: 1441
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Tuesday, November 07, 2006 - 06:05 am:   Edit Post

Well I don't know about the rest of you but....



Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 2877
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Tuesday, November 07, 2006 - 11:46 am:   Edit Post

A+ for good attitude, Shylah
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Weasel
Advanced Spanko
Username: Weasel

Post Number: 182
Registered: 06-2006


Posted on Saturday, November 11, 2006 - 12:47 pm:   Edit Post

she was just telling us about a book she read - not sending us to any website where to buy it so I would say that was an EXCELLENT book review, and thank you for sharing it with us.
Meybe Bethie would consider a movie/book review section? Sans links to anywhere...
Some day you'll spank me... er thank me for this!
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Buenaventura
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Username: Buenaventura

Post Number: 305
Registered: 04-2006


Posted on Saturday, November 11, 2006 - 01:53 pm:   Edit Post

Hey Weasel great idea!!
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 2907
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Saturday, November 11, 2006 - 02:01 pm:   Edit Post

Calm down Weasel, that has already been addressed. Members need to get into the habit of reading ALL of the posts before they add on something that has already been solved.
I am in complete agreement with you and there is no issue, please don't start fanning smoke when there is no flame.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"

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