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Tina
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Username: Tina

Post Number: 17
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 03:38 pm:   Edit Post

I am new to the scene and I need some fast answers because I'm getting my first one very soon. How do you react? Scream? Cry? Resist? Beg for mercy? Moan with pleasure? Serious responses only please, I am very nervous
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Tplayer
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Username: Tplayer

Post Number: 87
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 03:46 pm:   Edit Post

It depends on how it is given. If it is hard and fast, you probably will scream, cry or beg. But if the intensity level starts lower and increases, it is more pleasuable for the spankee.
Also, will it just be a hand spanking or will other implements be used. The implement has alot to do with the reaction given.
It's all a matter of perspective
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Tina
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Username: Tina

Post Number: 18
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 03:59 pm:   Edit Post

I don't believe there should be implements at this point, but you never know.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 2560
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 04:02 pm:   Edit Post

Respond with what comes naturally to you. We all vary and you need not "rehearse". Whatever comes out will be honest and that is what matters.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Ladygator2904
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904

Post Number: 197
Registered: 03-2006


Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 05:51 pm:   Edit Post

Nice answer Fanny. I agree...
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde

Post Number: 267
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 06:24 pm:   Edit Post

You react ...with how you feel ... if it hurts ..SCREAM KICK CRY if you need to .. if its oh so pleasurable .. go ahead and moan away ..
I am such a kid when I get spanked ..I kick ..I squirm , I beg and plead for it to stop (and if it does,before the lesson is learned ..I pout cause I want/need more)
Its ALL natural ..you go with what you have to get you through ..some remain still and do not cry or scream ..ohhh not this girl no way I got to wiggle and squirm .. its in my nature
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Blistering_blonde
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde

Post Number: 268
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 06:27 pm:   Edit Post

post note ....
ONLY bring in implaments when your ready for them ..no rush .. there are 365 days in a year , 24 hours a day ..7 days a week 4 weeks a month 12 months a year .. ...............got pleanty of time and ALL that time to spank and have fun
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks

Post Number: 573
Registered: 12-2005


Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 06:53 pm:   Edit Post

I agree with Fanny......and BB's last post :-) There is no rush with implements - especially if both of you are new to the spanking scene. I hope that your nervousness is the good kind :-)

Enjoy ~~
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Tina
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Username: Tina

Post Number: 19
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 07:07 pm:   Edit Post

ohmygod ohmygod ohmygod never mind!!!! I just met the guy and left after 7 minutes. This is a word to the wise. If you get into an on-line relationship with someone, don't let weeks go by emailing the person before you meet them. Meet them immediately. The disappointment of meeting a person who is SO NOT LIKE the person you were communicating with is truly palpable. Oh well, back to square one.
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Ladygator2904
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Username: Ladygator2904

Post Number: 198
Registered: 03-2006


Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 08:28 pm:   Edit Post

Sorry about your unusual experience Tina.. HUGS!
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie

Post Number: 1021
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 10:08 pm:   Edit Post

Tina, honey, I understand you're upset, but I don't think you did anything wrong! You spent time emailing him and thought you were getting to know him. Did you ever talk on the phone?

You see, I emailed Dan for weeks before we progressed to IM's, and then finally to more weeks of phone conversations before we ever met. I liked the slow process of getting to know him. It gave me time to get comfortable with him and know him better.

I often tell people to take their time with online acquaintances. Meeting up with someone you met online "immediately" may not be the best advice for everyone. Everyone needs to do this at their own pace and comfort level.

I'm sorry you had a bad experience though.
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Wolfie
Prime Spanko
Username: Wolfie

Post Number: 1773
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 11:06 pm:   Edit Post

Tina, I'm so glad you decided NOT to go through with a spanking after meeting this man. Your instincts are usually correct, and its much better to be safe...than sorry. Kudos to you for being brave and knowing your own mind!
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.

Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Tina
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Username: Tina

Post Number: 20
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 11:11 pm:   Edit Post

I think if we had had a phone conversation I would have realized he was not the one for me. But I have this phone-phobia with people I don't know. I'd rather email or meet in person rather than talk on the phone. Oh well, live and learn.
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Katie_spades
Supreme Spanko
Username: Katie_spades

Post Number: 606
Registered: 11-2005


Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 11:15 pm:   Edit Post

Tina I am so sorry that it didn't go well and you did the right thing by leaving... sorry that happened but to answer your question, Fanny is right and to each his/her own. I personally sometimes just try to brace myself and take it, sometimes I yell and scream out, and sometimes I cry, but it varies from situation to situation and spankning to spanking.
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx

Post Number: 780
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 11:31 pm:   Edit Post

Don't give up Tina. Keep trying!!
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Tina
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Username: Tina

Post Number: 21
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - 11:43 pm:   Edit Post

I don't know if this is a proper question to ask here, but can someone point me to a dating site where I can meet someone who is into what we are into?

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