spanking den

Spanking
Den

Topics Topics Help/Instructions Help Edit Profile Profile Member List Register  
Search Last 1 | 3 | 7 Days Search Search Tree View Tree View  
Spanking Den * Spanking Discussion Area * May - July 2006 * Bad Wife < Previous Next >

Author Message
Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message

Ogo1
New member
Username: Ogo1

Post Number: 6
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Friday, May 26, 2006 - 08:25 am:   Edit Post

Recently I posted that I cannot enter quite into a DD relationship with my husband at this time - problems - and I can't trust him right now to be judicial and give him the freedom to spank me - double .

But in trying to work things out, it takes two to make or break a relationship and I definely am a bad wife . (Probably I deserve a good spanking!!). The first thing our therapist told us is to work on being more respectful to each other. I am not very respectful - Make faces when he asks me to do things for him or find forms or phone numbers ....

So recently there was a posting about if anyone spanks themselves. I have to admit that lately a couple of times I have resorted to this . I have a picture of him on my side bedstand and I imagine it is him delivering the blows. I can't really hurt myself, but I can make my bottom sting a little as I imagine him giving me a good spanking. When he comes home, I imagine that he did give me a good spanking. This makes me SOooo hot! I greet him with big hugs and kisses! He likes this! It doesn't get me the real spanking I deserve, but it makes for a GOOOOOD night, if you know what I mean!
Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message

Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 2412
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Friday, May 26, 2006 - 08:45 am:   Edit Post

Ogo, I am glad you found a solution that is working for the time being. I have to wonder why it is that you are not respectful?
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message

Smartnnaughty
Advanced Spanko
Username: Smartnnaughty

Post Number: 343
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Monday, May 29, 2006 - 10:31 pm:   Edit Post

Ogo,

Fanny asked just the right question. If there are problems and you can't enter into a DD relationship right now, what can you do to clear up those problems. The disrespect is a symptom of something deeper. Figure out the answer to what is behind the disrespect and you will know what you need to work on.

Good luck with the processing. With the problems resolved you will be closer to being able to enter a DD relationship. It is worth working toward!

SNN
Everyone has a photographic memory, however, some just don't have film
Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message

Victoria_wood
Advanced Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood

Post Number: 153
Registered: 04-2006


Posted on Tuesday, May 30, 2006 - 04:13 pm:   Edit Post

Ogo,

If you can't stand him asking or telling you to do something, why do you think that you want to be in a DD relationship?

A DD relationship won't work if you don't respect him. And spanking will not solve whatever it is that is the problem between you.
Cheers,
Victoria

Topics | Last Day | Last Week | Tree View | Search | User List | Help/Instructions | Program Credits Administration