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Mistydawn
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Username: Mistydawn

Post Number: 49
Registered: 05-2006


Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 05:02 pm:   Edit Post

I'm sure this question must have been asked on here before but I'm interested or nosey take your pick(not of the nose) how did you first get into spanking and how young were you?
It's not something that usually crops up in everyday conversation and
I had my first spank at 39 before then I really didn't get it. We'd used a belt a bit but the OTK thing I saw as silly and more role play. How wrong can a girl be.
Anyhow I discovered it as an extension of submission and from reading things on the internet. I was exploring (still am )being a submissive and it seemed there was a lot of spanking attached to it so being a kind of get up and have a go girl we tried it and then tried it again and again and again.
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Learning to love and loving to learn
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Unsure2321
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Username: Unsure2321

Post Number: 6
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 08:40 pm:   Edit Post

i really can't answer your question, but i just wanted you to know that i agree with the question and look forward to reading some answers.
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Cheekychipmunk
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Username: Cheekychipmunk

Post Number: 58
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 09:50 pm:   Edit Post

I was into spanking when my hubby and I were dating, in our late teens. But I only had fantasies bout it. When I attempted to play out part of the fantasy it would all blow up in my face. I didn't know how to bring it to him so I would get mad at him when he couldn't see the whole picture.
Finally I gave up for a while til I lucked up a spanking forum like this one.
Then I got up the courage after leaving stories for him to read, and little hints, to bring up the subject to him.
It took a while, but it has finally sunk in and we have been into spanking for the last 3-4 years.
"Success in almost any field depends more on energy and drive than it does on intelligence."
Sloan Wilson
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie

Post Number: 867
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 10:34 pm:   Edit Post

Misty, we don't normally address this subject because asking "how did you first get into spanking and how young were you?" often invites discussions that aren't welcome on this board. We do not allow any discussions that involve children, even if that child is you and you're reminiscing. You came into this lifestyle later in life than some others so you are working in a different time frame. Others won't be.

Please remember, no discussions involving anyone under the age of 18. Thank you!
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Butterfly84
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Username: Butterfly84

Post Number: 31
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 10:48 pm:   Edit Post

Ok, all I'll say is I've been into for as long as I can remember :-)
~*butterfly*~

Nobody suspects the butterfly...
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Mistydawn
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Username: Mistydawn

Post Number: 50
Registered: 05-2006


Posted on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 - 03:13 am:   Edit Post

Sorry Bethie.
It didn't even enter my head.
I somtimes forget that my world isn't necessarily the big world. And of course this topic could have links to innocent childhood discipline as well as other stuff.
I was just really interested in the different ways people got interested.
So if it all's legal stuff can I still ask?
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Bluepencil
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Username: Bluepencil

Post Number: 39
Registered: 04-2005
Posted on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 - 08:34 am:   Edit Post

Like Butterfly said, "as long as I can remember" and that's been a long, long time!!
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 2398
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 - 02:56 pm:   Edit Post

I'm so sorry Ewsbmad, but I have to delete your post. Scroll up and you will see Bethie reminding members that you cannot relate stories of childhood experiences. It is also in the rules that you should have read before you registered.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie

Post Number: 875
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 - 03:03 pm:   Edit Post

Misty, the way people got interested may still be linked directly to a subject we can't talk about here. Sorry, but for so many of us, spanking has been a life-long interest and there's no way to discuss the beginning of it for us. I sure can't. But I'd rather leave that information out than risk ever stepping over the line. I won't open the door for that type of discussion. This is an adult forum and that's the bottom line.

I'm afraid this may become a problem, Fanny just deleted a post, and we may have to close the thread if that keeps up.
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Mistydawn
Spanko
Username: Mistydawn

Post Number: 58
Registered: 05-2006


Posted on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 - 03:05 pm:   Edit Post

I just pm her explaing that she should try and remove it . I'll try and word the next thread a bit better I just am intersted in the why's and wherefores of this lifestyle..
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie

Post Number: 877
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 - 03:07 pm:   Edit Post

Okay, we'll close this one and you can start a new one. Thank you!

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