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Lanadom
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Username: Lanadom

Post Number: 1
Registered: 04-2006
Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 12:31 am:   Edit Post

I was recently married and would like to try domestic discipline. I know it may sound silly but can someone give me step-by-step instructions? Like Bare bottom? He spanks me with his hand first or a belt? I guess I am confused with how to start and when to spank.
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Pinkcheeks
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Username: Pinkcheeks

Post Number: 306
Registered: 12-2005


Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 06:57 am:   Edit Post

Hi Lanadom and welcome to the den ...there are lots of threads here that could help you in your quest to try DD - also, there are some great website out there as well. I have been married for a long time, and over the last 3 years or so have we begun to use spanking for more then just erotic play. It takes time, lots of communication, and understanding. *BTW, if you are just starting out, you might want your hubby to use his hand first (before a belt) - and don't forget to have him "warm up" your bottom prior to more forceful spanks.

Take your time and read thru some of our past discussions....they can really help! Good luck and please feel free to chat with us - we are a great group!!
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Me_home_here
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Username: Me_home_here

Post Number: 224
Registered: 04-2006


Posted on Wednesday, April 26, 2006 - 07:04 am:   Edit Post

Hi Lanadom, welcome to the Den. Just take things easy at the beginning and go to where you want to go to. use a safe word too at least in the beginning. But most of all and most important , have fun togather.
All depends on how you feel and if your right or left handed
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Ladygator2904
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Username: Ladygator2904

Post Number: 76
Registered: 03-2006


Posted on Friday, April 28, 2006 - 06:55 pm:   Edit Post

Hello Lanadom, My husband and I started DD about 2 months ago now. I did a search on the net and read a lot of things about it, If you email me I will let you know the addy, it is VERY informative. I had a big need (justified) for a punishment spanking and I ordered a very tough leather strap, after a long discussion , hubby put it to use and I got what I needed :-) I do not recommend this though, I usually am an impatient person and we both decided this was the best method. I have no regrets even though I had minor discomfort for about 4 days ;) I hope the DD lifestyle will be as rewarding for you and it is for us. Life is blissful!
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Batfinch
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Username: Batfinch

Post Number: 3
Registered: 04-2006


Posted on Monday, May 01, 2006 - 03:19 am:   Edit Post

The most important thing is to do it in love.
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Ladygator2904
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Username: Ladygator2904

Post Number: 83
Registered: 03-2006


Posted on Tuesday, May 02, 2006 - 08:40 pm:   Edit Post

Hey, I LIKE that Batflich.. When you do it with love nothing can go wrong. It sure has taken my 3 yr marriage up a notch or two!
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!

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