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Sdhrts
New member
Username: Sdhrts

Post Number: 37
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Sunday, November 06, 2005 - 08:06 pm:   Edit Post

I've been dating Tina for a little while and just have to yell from the roof tops a little. The other night we decided to become exclusive. It's been so long, but I hung in there till she came along. I don't know if she's a spanko, and that's important to me, as you all understand. I have made some spanking suggestions and they weren't recieved with any negativity.She's so spiritual and open minded, easy on the eyes too,that I think it won't be long till I make good on my spanking threats, which kind of come across as playfull sillyness for now. we have such great communnication betwen us and I'lll be showing her this site soon. Thoughts of ever getting married again were far distant, till the last couple of months when I met Tina. Who knows, I might have struck gold and end up across her lap too. I had to make a decision that even if she wasn't a spanko I couldn't pass her by. That is a hard decision to make for a dyed in the wool spanko like me. So glad I can say this here, as I haven't told my other friends or family about her yet. Kinda feeling like a kid again on his first date-yeowwwwwwwwwww eeeeeeeee.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie

Post Number: 741
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Monday, November 07, 2005 - 10:11 am:   Edit Post

Bless you Sdhrts, I'm so happy for you! There's nothing like the rush that comes with being in love...whether its the first time or the last. I hope you can gently introduce her to spanking and that she learns to enjoy it as much as you do.

Finding a compatible person you can love is more important than our fetish (in my opinion of course), but its lovely when you can have both.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Babyj
Advanced Spanko
Username: Babyj

Post Number: 340
Registered: 11-2005


Posted on Monday, November 07, 2005 - 10:52 am:   Edit Post

congrats
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Sdhrts
New member
Username: Sdhrts

Post Number: 40
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Monday, November 07, 2005 - 10:54 am:   Edit Post

Thanks Wolfie,I'm glad you identify.I struggled with our fetish verses and someone I realy love. The combination is the ultimate, but if only one is possible I'll have to place the fetish 2nd. She is full of surprises though. I will attempt to gently ease he into this and appreciate the reminder.
SD
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Sdhrts
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Username: Sdhrts

Post Number: 41
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Monday, November 07, 2005 - 10:54 am:   Edit Post

Thanks Babyj
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Ziggy
Supreme Spanko
Username: Ziggy

Post Number: 970
Registered: 08-2005
Posted on Monday, November 07, 2005 - 11:57 am:   Edit Post

I am happy for you sdhrts. life is to short wothout love in you life !!
when caught run faster then him
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Sdhrts
Spanko
Username: Sdhrts

Post Number: 65
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Wednesday, November 09, 2005 - 10:22 am:   Edit Post

Still keeping my cards close to mt chest as far as family and my other friends are concerned. So, I'm glad I have this site and all of you. Tina's comming over for the day too. Oh is my place clean all of a sudden......lol. I''ll be showing her this site along with my profile, maybe today. What a different but interesting way to ease her into my lifee style. I reallly like the feedback and suggestions I get here.
I'm still and always will be green at bringing this up to a new partner, it's always different.
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Ziggy
Supreme Spanko
Username: Ziggy

Post Number: 991
Registered: 08-2005
Posted on Wednesday, November 09, 2005 - 10:53 am:   Edit Post

wel glad to help in anyway alright, enjoy you two, LOL
when caught run faster then him !!

Me and Thur riding into the sunset !!

I am a TA junkie !!
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Sdhrts
Spanko
Username: Sdhrts

Post Number: 79
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 12:00 am:   Edit Post

She mentioned tonight that I must have a thing about spanking,(I told her I most certainly do) has no problem with it, and I think I'll show her this site soon. Things are great! Big thanks and hugs to you all for being here to listen. We've kept our jeoulous and nosy single friends at a safe distance so far as we agreed to. She met my family last week and it couldn't have gone better.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie

Post Number: 808
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 12:13 pm:   Edit Post

I'm very happy for you Sdhrts, it's wonderful that everything is going well. Obviously what your doing is making it easy for her to accept your little kink...keep up the good work!
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Sdhrts
Spanko
Username: Sdhrts

Post Number: 80
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 02:29 pm:   Edit Post

Thanks Wolfie, I really appreciate it. The support just doesn't come from the friends and family that I expect it to come from. We're talking about relocating off of the East coast, but not discussing it with, not always well intentioned, people we know. Single friends seem to be resentful,if another family member tells me to take it slow and I'll loose my mind(none of them did take anything slow in their own relationships). They forget all aboout us when they go home to their significant others at night and we go home alone. Anyone else experience this crap? Thank God for all of you!
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Shylah
Advanced Spanko
Username: Shylah

Post Number: 471
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 02:57 pm:   Edit Post

You go and do what your heart tells you to do. That's what I did and I don't regret it for a single minute. I'm loved by the man I sleep with...a true adult love that two people are supposed to have. For awhile we had no support but now we have made friends that are there for us as well as we are there for them. Go for it and be happy!!
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.

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