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Rocco
Advanced Spanko
Username: Rocco

Post Number: 425
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Thursday, August 04, 2005 - 02:52 pm:   Edit Post

I think it’s safe to say that the Den is populated mostly by male tops and female bottoms. I know I’m not the only switch in the Den. So it’s time to stand up and be counted. If you’re a switch (male or female) sign on and let us know. And for the guys out there who are bottoms, stop in and say hello too. There have been a lot of new people joining the Den, which is awesome to see, and a big hello and welcome to you all, but sometimes it takes a while for the profiles to load (or that could just be my connection) this might be easier. So come!!! Lets hear from you!

(This includes any lurkers out there)
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Wild1
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Username: Wild1

Post Number: 2
Registered: 08-2005
Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 03:02 am:   Edit Post

f switch here!}
wild1;)
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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 435
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 11:32 am:   Edit Post

Thanks Wild1!

Come you all, I know you're out there!!
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 1010
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 12:26 pm:   Edit Post

Rocco, I have never been a switch.....but you are making it more appealing to me.....just so I can go after YOU!!!!
"Queen of Innocence"

Be willing to pass up good, for great!

"oooooo", she says!!
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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 440
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 01:02 pm:   Edit Post

You can come after me all you want Fanny, it'll only result in you getting a good sound spanking. Which is what I know you're after.
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 1019
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 01:08 pm:   Edit Post

Don't be so cock sure of yourself, Darling!
"Queen of Innocence"

Be willing to pass up good, for great!

"oooooo", she says!!
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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 443
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 01:13 pm:   Edit Post

Too many directions to go with that one...

BACK ON TOPIC!

And here I thouhgt you were supposed to be the administrator?
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 1020
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 01:37 pm:   Edit Post

I didn't realize that I was off topic.

What would you like me to administer to?
"Queen of Innocence"

Be willing to pass up good, for great!

"oooooo", she says!!
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Biggirl
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Username: Biggirl

Post Number: 55
Registered: 05-2005
Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 10:16 pm:   Edit Post

Rocco:

I am still quite new to spanking. I have not switched. I would definately like to. But it is not something I want with G. I am sure as with all things it will happen when it happens.

Brightest Blessings,BigGirl
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 1032
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 11:29 pm:   Edit Post

There are some people who are open to switching and others that definately are not. R is one who absolutley is not a bottom in any sense. I have been known to give him a swat in passing, but he nearly always pays me back. He will not even discuss the possibility of giving it a try. That is fine with me, I don't feel the need to be a top. I get my revenge is so many other ways!!
"Queen of Innocence"

Be willing to pass up good, for great!

"oooooo", she says!!
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Wild1
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Username: Wild1

Post Number: 3
Registered: 08-2005
Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 11:50 pm:   Edit Post

Excuse me Rocco...but aren't you a switch so in all fairness I think Fanny should have a shotat you all's fair heheheh
wild1;)
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 1037
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2005 - 08:12 am:   Edit Post

I have Wild1 and I do intend on revisting that scenario. I am all about fairness. Rocco will learn just how much he can get away with!!!
"Queen of Innocence"

Be willing to pass up good, for great!

"oooooo", she says!!
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Reader_girl
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Username: Reader_girl

Post Number: 18
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2005 - 10:07 am:   Edit Post

Okay, so I have a question about switching....

Forgive me while I expose my extremely poor understanding.

I've always assumed that I enjoy being spanked because of physiological or cultural forces that cause me to enjoy feeling dominated but loved and cherished and protected - even from myself. I guess the physiological comes more into play as to why it's a turn on...

And, I've always assumed that it was the opposite for men who like to spank. They enjoy being dominant and loving, protecting, and cherishing their spankee. And that comes from certain physiological or cultural forces acting out in their lives. Plus, I think men are more visual, and they enjoy looking at bare bottoms.

So anyway, what is it that motivates a switch? Is it the same, only both? I really don't want to offend anyone, I'm just trying to understand. Whatever you enjoy is okay, whether it's my kink or not.
Reader Girl
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Wild1
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Username: Wild1

Post Number: 4
Registered: 08-2005
Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2005 - 12:48 pm:   Edit Post

I think it is the same at least from my perspective..I think a male switch should chime in here and give us his point of view

wild1;)
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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 460
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Sunday, August 07, 2005 - 10:59 am:   Edit Post

First I'd like to give a big THANKS to Wild1 for encouraging Fanny. Like I don't have enough trouble with here already And since you're all about voulenteering... who gets a shot at you?? If after all all is fair <weg>
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Wild1
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Username: Wild1

Post Number: 8
Registered: 08-2005
Posted on Sunday, August 07, 2005 - 12:05 pm:   Edit Post

A really big welcome Rocco Anyone who is man enough to do so can TRY to get a shot at me but don't forget I switch so he who gives might end up receiving
wild1;)
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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 461
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Sunday, August 07, 2005 - 12:26 pm:   Edit Post

I like your style Wild1
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Wild1
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Username: Wild1

Post Number: 9
Registered: 08-2005
Posted on Sunday, August 07, 2005 - 12:32 pm:   Edit Post

back to Rocco's original post

If you’re a switch (male or female) sign on and let us know. And for the guys out there who are bottoms, stop in and say hello too

so is there anyone else that would like to chime in here?
}
wild1;)
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Wild1
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Username: Wild1

Post Number: 10
Registered: 08-2005
Posted on Sunday, August 07, 2005 - 12:37 pm:   Edit Post

thank you once again Rocco
wild1;)
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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 462
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Sunday, August 07, 2005 - 02:10 pm:   Edit Post

Okay Readergirl, here is my take on your question. As a switch there are a couple different things going for me when it comes to spanking.

From my top side, I do enjoy the visual aspect, no denying that. More so it's all about the dominant, loving, protecting, and cherishing of the spankee. The specific dynamics can change with different partners, but in my experiences that is what it's been about. It's also highly erotic and fun play.

From the bottom side, for me at least, I find being spanked to be a huge escape, and the side or after effect are much better than a night of heavy drinking. It's the perfect stress reliever. It's a time to let go of all the crap from the day, relinquish some control, allow the person you love to take care of you and help to realign focus, and just to connect with that person in an intimate way. And then there's the times when my GF does it just as foreplay, and there's no complaint on my "end"
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Kimbers
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Username: Kimbers

Post Number: 3
Registered: 08-2005
Posted on Monday, August 08, 2005 - 12:59 am:   Edit Post

Well, I'm new here but I'll join in.

Until I started searching the internet last year I didn't even know what a switch was! It never occured to me to fantasize about me spanking someone. I am definitely a bottom at heart, but would be willing to top if necessary. Such new lovely things to ponder!

Kimbers
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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 468
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Monday, August 08, 2005 - 12:34 pm:   Edit Post

<weg> Perhaps she can be persuaded to the dark side...

Way to be open to new possibilities Kimbers! Keeps things interesting that way...
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Hunter
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Username: Hunter

Post Number: 2
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Monday, August 08, 2005 - 01:49 pm:   Edit Post

I am also a switch.
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Rocco
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Username: Rocco

Post Number: 474
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Monday, August 08, 2005 - 01:52 pm:   Edit Post

Thanks for posting Hunter.
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Firedawg100
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Username: Firedawg100

Post Number: 1
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2005 - 05:36 pm:   Edit Post

I too am a switch. You just dont hear about many who switch for some reason. I enjoy the lovely female bottom across my knee but I also enjoy looking at her lovely legs while draped across her knee....so yeah I like the visual aspects....lol
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Babyj4
Supreme Spanko
Username: Babyj4

Post Number: 719
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2005 - 06:43 pm:   Edit Post

I would love to swich, but that is totally out of the question with my husband, he is totally not on the recieveing end, he's made that perfectly clear.
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Ftopinmichigan
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Username: Ftopinmichigan

Post Number: 19
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2005 - 07:18 pm:   Edit Post

<cough,cough>

There are female Tops here too, ya know!

Just joined up recently.
K
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Babyj4
Supreme Spanko
Username: Babyj4

Post Number: 731
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2005 - 07:22 pm:   Edit Post

well, come play Ftop
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Pagan
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Username: Pagan

Post Number: 140
Registered: 05-2005
Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2005 - 10:22 pm:   Edit Post

I don't switch with my husband (he won't even consider it...says it's just not his thing), but I did with a former partner.

I haven't spanked a man in over 15 years, but I suspect it's rather like riding a bike?
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Firedawg100
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Username: Firedawg100

Post Number: 2
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Monday, October 10, 2005 - 06:22 pm:   Edit Post

Ohhh better keep an eye out for Ftopinmichigan. Interesting to hear from both sides. Have a wonderful day
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Ftopinmichigan
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Username: Ftopinmichigan

Post Number: 20
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Monday, October 10, 2005 - 07:19 pm:   Edit Post

Oh, Firedawg, you're far enough from Detroit to be safe from me...or are you?

K
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Babyj4
Supreme Spanko
Username: Babyj4

Post Number: 755
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Monday, October 10, 2005 - 08:32 pm:   Edit Post


Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Badtom
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Username: Badtom

Post Number: 11
Registered: 09-2005
Posted on Monday, October 10, 2005 - 09:44 pm:   Edit Post

Good evening Rocco, and good evening everyone. I too am a switch - a switch who likes a switching!

As a top I don't get much action because my partner is even less into being spanked than she is into spanking me! Basically we have a good loving relationship, but with a kink discrepency.

As a bottom I (sort of) enjoy the sensual side of pain as well as the psychology of being dominated. In reality, it's mutual caring domination, though it can be crueller in my fantasy. But top or bottom, I fantasise both roles simultaneously. And I bottom a lot more to make up for not being able to top much...sort of bottom to my own top!

Did that make sense?
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Hunnybunny
Supreme Spanko
Username: Hunnybunny

Post Number: 632
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Monday, October 10, 2005 - 11:27 pm:   Edit Post

Yeah it kinda makes sense Badtom! lol
As for me I'm not sure about switching. I guess if someone REALLY pissed me off I would drag them over my knee in a second! It all depends on how far they went and how pissed off I am. I have been known to get physical when I'm mad though. So I'm not quite sure?
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Babyj4
Supreme Spanko
Username: Babyj4

Post Number: 761
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 03:27 am:   Edit Post

Dare to try Hb, it might be fun
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Hunnybunny
Supreme Spanko
Username: Hunnybunny

Post Number: 637
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 06:40 am:   Edit Post

Maybe Babyj, but never actually being spanked before kinda gets in the way!
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Babyj4
Supreme Spanko
Username: Babyj4

Post Number: 769
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 06:51 am:   Edit Post

that sucks Hb
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Firedawg100
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Username: Firedawg100

Post Number: 4
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 07:12 pm:   Edit Post

Ftop, I shall never say....ask no questions and I tell no lies.....LOL
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Babyj4
Supreme Spanko
Username: Babyj4

Post Number: 792
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 09:02 pm:   Edit Post


Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Hunnybunny
Supreme Spanko
Username: Hunnybunny

Post Number: 649
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 09:45 pm:   Edit Post

Yeah it does suck, but I have never met someone that is into spanking.
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Babyj4
Supreme Spanko
Username: Babyj4

Post Number: 803
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 09:48 pm:   Edit Post

don't give up Hb you will
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Hunnybunny
Supreme Spanko
Username: Hunnybunny

Post Number: 651
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 09:51 pm:   Edit Post

eventually I will find someone that I love and that is into to "the life" too!
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Babyj4
Supreme Spanko
Username: Babyj4

Post Number: 816
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 10:09 pm:   Edit Post

thats right, I believe that everyone has someone out there, you just have to find them
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Hunnybunny
Supreme Spanko
Username: Hunnybunny

Post Number: 665
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 10:10 pm:   Edit Post

Mine knight in shinning armor show up eventually!
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Babyj4
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Username: Babyj4

Post Number: 821
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 10:19 pm:   Edit Post

yes he will
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Principessa_jessica
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Username: Principessa_jessica

Post Number: 3
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 10:20 pm:   Edit Post

I don’t really think I’m a switch per say but I defiantly have had a few fantasies of spanking others. Actually now I’m writing about it the idea is starting to turn me on more. Maybe I am a Switch! Learn something new about yourself everyday!!!
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Hunnybunny
Supreme Spanko
Username: Hunnybunny

Post Number: 668
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 10:27 pm:   Edit Post

You should try it one time and make sure that you are really into it first!
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Babyj4
Supreme Spanko
Username: Babyj4

Post Number: 829
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 10:28 pm:   Edit Post

You never know unless you try.
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Hunnybunny
Supreme Spanko
Username: Hunnybunny

Post Number: 676
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2005 - 10:36 pm:   Edit Post

Yup!
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Ziggy
Supreme Spanko
Username: Ziggy

Post Number: 587
Registered: 08-2005
Posted on Wednesday, October 12, 2005 - 04:03 am:   Edit Post

I have tried I surpized my Dom, and he didn't like it at all. THis was before I got married, I ended up getting it twice as worst. LOL we still talk online, but he isn't my Dom anymore. To bad my hubbie isn't into spanking, I am slowly pushing him.
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Babyj4
Supreme Spanko
Username: Babyj4

Post Number: 830
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Wednesday, October 12, 2005 - 09:28 am:   Edit Post

don't push to much or he could resent you for it.
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Firedawg100
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Username: Firedawg100

Post Number: 6
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Wednesday, October 12, 2005 - 12:36 pm:   Edit Post

Hunnybunny, I know exactly how you feel about not meeting anyone into the life!
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Babyj4
Supreme Spanko
Username: Babyj4

Post Number: 844
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Wednesday, October 12, 2005 - 04:58 pm:   Edit Post

Just keep looking, you will.
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Firedawg100
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Username: Firedawg100

Post Number: 9
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Wednesday, October 12, 2005 - 05:56 pm:   Edit Post

Thats what I keep hearing, if only I could see and feel her with my eyes and hands.
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Babyj4
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Username: Babyj4

Post Number: 845
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Wednesday, October 12, 2005 - 06:03 pm:   Edit Post

it takes time, some of us find our match sooner that others
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Hunnybunny
Supreme Spanko
Username: Hunnybunny

Post Number: 692
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Wednesday, October 12, 2005 - 10:14 pm:   Edit Post

I feel your pain Firedawg! I want to meet my knight in shining armor soon! I think I found him though! Keep your fingers crossed for me!
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Babyj4
Supreme Spanko
Username: Babyj4

Post Number: 851
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Wednesday, October 12, 2005 - 11:47 pm:   Edit Post

mine are crossed for both of you
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Tanjas_brat
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Username: Tanjas_brat

Post Number: 3
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Saturday, October 15, 2005 - 10:44 pm:   Edit Post

I AM SWITCH HERE TOO--EXCEPT IN THIS NEW RELATIONSHIP I HAVE NOT YET BEEN ABLE TO TOP.BUT I AM WORKING ON IT}}}
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Sdhrts
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Username: Sdhrts

Post Number: 30
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Saturday, November 05, 2005 - 08:32 am:   Edit Post

Switch here for sure, in practice and emotion. I think both sides are delicious, and have their own allure. Speaking for myself only of course.
Is IT Better To Give Than To Recieve?
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Robeach
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Username: Robeach

Post Number: 1
Registered: 09-2006
Posted on Monday, September 18, 2006 - 05:39 pm:   Edit Post

We switch. He needs to take the strap on the bed, ass high in the air, with Erotica playing softly. She has learned to play his balls perfectly, then return to his ass cheeks. She knows to mark him well.

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