Post Number: 1
|Posted on Friday, August 13, 2021 - 11:56 am: ||
Just looking for some advice/ insight, me and my partner have been practicing DD for approximately two years, although due to covid spankings and in person punishments have been very sporadic - and as a result my behaviour has definitely suffered. We’ve decided to invest in a ‘punishment paddle’ for more serious offence. Up until now we’ve only really used, hands, belts, crops and leather paddles. This is our first wooden implement and is 16”x4” Purpleheart paddle with 8 bevelled holes drilled completely through.
I’m fully aware that I’m going to be given a severe (and well deserved) paddling when we are finally able to meet again next week- and was hoping some of you more experienced lot would be able to give me some insight into how bad it may actually be/ how it will compare with any of the other implements we’ve previously used. And also any tips on what I need to be doing both before (leading up to) and after my punishment to ensure there is no real, lasting damage, whilst still ensuring that I will feel it for a few days after, and remember it for a hell of a lot longer.
Thank you all in advance
Post Number: 34
|Posted on Monday, August 16, 2021 - 10:10 am: ||
Since you have agreed to the wooden paddle, just
don't think about it ahead of time. You should get what you deserve. It will hurt, but hopefully teach you a lesson. The pain is attention getting. The after-pain is a reminder of your lesson. Don't fret, just take your medicine. Let SpankingDen know how it turns out.
How often and how hard do you get punished with the belt, crop, and leather paddle? It is too late to get tips on leading up to your first time, so take it and learn from it !
Post Number: 35
|Posted on Monday, September 13, 2021 - 10:44 am: ||
How did the new paddle work out?
How does it compare to your usual implements ?