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Rudeaberry
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Username: Rudeaberry

Post Number: 25
Registered: 01-2011
Posted on Friday, August 05, 2011 - 04:39 pm:   Edit Post

A submissive lady's first visit to the spanking-bench is always a landmark event. After all, it's a major step to allow herself be moderately restrained while being taken to task by a gentleman.

The importance of consent, trust and respect in preparing a lady for the bench is obvious. There is a considerable onus on the gentleman to build up gradually and lovingly to the point where she is comfortable about the development. Detailed discussion of what the bench involves should take place. Images of ladies secured to a bench for their spanking may also prove helpful.

But there's no substitute for inviting the lady to inspect a spanking-bench for herself. This helps to ensure informed consent. It also allows the lady to satisfy her curiosity about the apparatus itself.

She may be surprised at how steeply the padded top of the bench slopes forward (all the better to elevate her bottom when she is properly positioned, of course). She will marvel at the location of the restraints (one behind her knees, another across her back below the line of her brassiere, and two more in front to secure her wrists). A perceptive lady easily imagines how appealing a spectacle this will present to her gentleman.

If and when the lady agrees to use the bench, a wise gentleman will require that she wears high heels for her first visit. This form of footwear accentuates the forward tilt provided by the design of the apparatus and ensures the best possible presentation of her bottom.........
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Darlingjenna
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Username: Darlingjenna

Post Number: 8
Registered: 08-2011
Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 06:29 pm:   Edit Post

I think my husband is going to try and construct one of these for us. And then forever after, I will not be able to invite guests into our bedroom... "What's THAT?"
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Yorkie69
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Username: Yorkie69

Post Number: 110
Registered: 08-2010
Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 09:27 pm:   Edit Post

Lol! Now that would be interesting dinner conversation!
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Warmpalm
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Username: Warmpalm

Post Number: 153
Registered: 05-2011
Posted on Friday, August 19, 2011 - 01:26 pm:   Edit Post

You could say it's a bench for doing yoga, or stretching exercises, or for extracting information from prisoners. That would work.
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Yorkie69
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Username: Yorkie69

Post Number: 115
Registered: 08-2010
Posted on Friday, August 19, 2011 - 09:20 pm:   Edit Post

I like the prisoners one Warmpalm!
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Fred2010
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Username: Fred2010

Post Number: 73
Registered: 06-2010
Posted on Saturday, August 20, 2011 - 09:08 pm:   Edit Post

What is the function of restraints in a mutually agreed upon spanking session with safe words? We used restraints early on while my wife was into it, but eventually I found them redundant and I liked the dominant submissive feel of things when my wife held on for another stroke.
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Bethie
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Username: Bethie

Post Number: 2094
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Sunday, August 21, 2011 - 02:30 am:   Edit Post

Fred, some of us *like* restraints.

Bondage for people like me is about the head space that sort of play puts us in.
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Fred2010
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Username: Fred2010

Post Number: 74
Registered: 06-2010
Posted on Sunday, August 21, 2011 - 10:58 am:   Edit Post

I found it a bit slow, but I enjoy the pictures.
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Mbottom
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Username: Mbottom

Post Number: 44
Registered: 04-2011
Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2011 - 09:05 am:   Edit Post

Each to their own, thats for sure.....I personally dont like restraints (I like being restrained by my husband), but would feel very cold using a bench & being restrained by cuffs, etc.....But if its something you enjoy, good for you!!
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Rudeaberry
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Username: Rudeaberry

Post Number: 27
Registered: 01-2011
Posted on Tuesday, September 13, 2011 - 02:21 pm:   Edit Post

The spanking-bench is sometimes called the whipping-bench. It's easy to see why, given the posture of the lady, but the bench is not implement-specific.

It does, however, facilitate the use of longer implements of correction
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Leigh
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Username: Leigh

Post Number: 4
Registered: 10-2011
Posted on Monday, October 17, 2011 - 10:06 pm:   Edit Post

I think trying something like that on an occasional basis might be fun. Variety is the spice of life!
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Buttpain
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Username: Buttpain

Post Number: 16
Registered: 05-2012
Posted on Tuesday, May 15, 2012 - 03:52 pm:   Edit Post

Restraints are also useful with longer implements to prevent the spankee from moving and then being struck off-target.

And as mentioned, many just like the feel of being restrained.
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Slavegirl
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Username: Slavegirl

Post Number: 33
Registered: 09-2008
Posted on Thursday, August 30, 2012 - 02:38 pm:   Edit Post

I find three to eight minutes of waiting stapped on the bench heightens the experience. this smay seem a very precise range. however less than three is not enough as the antipation builds up but then tails off and more than eight does not add anything. But five minutes or so with not knowing quite how long give me time to anticipate the feeling of the first stroke on my buttoocks and contemplate how exposed my anus and genitals are to my spankers gaze.
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Ispanx
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Username: Ispanx

Post Number: 10
Registered: 09-2012
Posted on Sunday, September 23, 2012 - 06:47 pm:   Edit Post

Theres a bunch of ol roughneck bars all in a small area i like to go to. the one in the middle is a spanking bar -- but not everybody knows that.

There was also a young lady who used to show up in that area from time to time. You men know the type -- she was gorgeous and she knew it, too. Stuck on herself. She made the other ladies jealous, and then shot all the men down.

I'm pretty sure any you men who go out have had a bad experience with a woman like that. So, you won't feel too sorry for her when I tell you that I set her up a little bit, then took her on an embarrassing little trip to the back room.

I can't tell you how I went about introducing her to the spanking bench -- or I would get thrown off the site.hehe

But we kissed and made up. And she even ended up wanting to go home with me.

Now she's my favorite little playmate. And she's been very polite to everybody ever since -- except me.
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Myredtail
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Username: Myredtail

Post Number: 5
Registered: 01-2012
Posted on Thursday, October 04, 2012 - 01:40 pm:   Edit Post

We have a wood rocking chair with a really tall back (square not round at the top) that, when tipped forward and pillows are added to the bottom between the curved legs to elevate my bottom above the curved legs, works as a fantastic spanking bench. The curved legs of the rocker naturally provide a place for ties and restraints of any kind. The back of the rocker provides places to tie my arms and still leaves my breasts free (Master pinches my nipples when I count my swats with the paddle too slowly). All the while leaving my bottom in the perfect position for whatever Master has in mind. The greatest thing about the rocker is that it is easily pervertable. When we have company over, its in the main room and a no one is the wiser about its other uses.

I love when Master ties me to it for my spanking or paddling. And I blush a lot when we have company over and anyone sits in it.
So if you are thinking about introducing your lady to a spanking bench and are worried she won't like it, consider a wood rocking chair that can remain in plain sight of everyone.

Master had me over it yesterday for a punishment and I could not move out of position when Master really got into the swing of things. I'm sitting sore today, but I deserved the punishment.
Mel
rocking chair

(Message edited by MyRedTail on October 04, 2012)

(Message edited by MyRedTail on October 04, 2012)
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Rudeaberry
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Username: Rudeaberry

Post Number: 46
Registered: 01-2011
Posted on Saturday, November 24, 2012 - 11:28 am:   Edit Post

As Myredtail describes, creative use of furniture can produce lots of fun. The key feature of a spanking bench (conventional or improvised) is how it elevates a lady's bottom. In this way the target area is presented most appealingly for the gentleman to perform his disciplinary duty.
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Outerlimits
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Username: Outerlimits

Post Number: 1
Registered: 08-2013
Posted on Friday, August 02, 2013 - 10:02 pm:   Edit Post

I love the use of a spanking bench. The spanking artist Stig I love the way he secures his women for flogging.

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