Post Number: 1
|Posted on Monday, June 28, 2010 - 03:57 pm: ||
I am a little nervous writing this as I am still shy/embarrassed about my love of spankings. I am 22 and have loved spankings for as long as I can remember. I'm married to a wonderful guy who I met at a very young age and he has always known about my fetish, just took me a while to get him into it. Now that I got him to like it, I feel like I'm always pushing it on him. He says he loves it but I feel like I'm addicted. I mean I can easily spend most of my day reading/watching spanking sites. Its all I think about, dream about and wish I could talk about. I just feel like I'm pushing it. He doesn't seem as into it as he says and definitely not as much as I am. We do play,not very often, but for some reason the playful ones don't do much for me. I like punishment spankings. Only problem is, I never NEED a punishment. I read stories of punishments for speeding tickets, bad attitudes, being lazy etc. But does that really happen? I mean it sure as heck doesn't happen to me. And if I start acting a brat on purpose, it gets annoying and turns into a for real bad attitude then a fight. So what do I do? I'm addicted and I can't be satisfied. I could live with being spanked multiple times a day everyday forever. But I just think he will get tired of it. He's either too tired or it only lasts 5 min. Sorry for rambling, I just finally got it all out and I'm dying for a way to be satisfied...
Post Number: 18
|Posted on Monday, June 28, 2010 - 05:11 pm: ||
Hello and welcome.
It's good that your husband does agree to spank you, and I'm guessing that if he really didn't like it, he would say so. However, us true "spankos" seem to always want some spanking action. I don't think that most people can relate to that.
You asked if spankings for bad behavior, etc, really happen, and I can honestly say that they do. As a matter of fact, I just received a severe punishment spanking today for repeated procrastination issues.
I would suggest that if there is something in your life that you would like to improve on - say a specific goal or something like that, you can set the goal, try to achieve it, and if you slack off in trying to achieve that goal, perhaps you and your husband could agree that that would be a reason for a punishment spanking. Maybe you could review your progress say once a week, for example, and if you aren't making improvements, that might be grounds for a spanking. Just some things that come to mind.
Good luck to you in getting what you want and need.
Post Number: 3
|Posted on Wednesday, July 07, 2010 - 12:48 pm: ||
Thank you. That really helped!