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Spankmeplease
New member
Username: Spankmeplease

Post Number: 1
Registered: 11-2008
Posted on Saturday, November 29, 2008 - 05:06 pm:   Edit Post

Hi there. I have never been spanked but have always had an interest in it....I'm 21 by the way. For a while now, I have done self spanking as it is my only option. I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions on how to spank myself.

Obviously I hope to one day know someone who will spank me but for now this is it. I am a fairly normal guy except for the fact that I am quite shy and not very successful with girls. So for the time, it is not an option to ask anyone I know if they will spank me.

Anyway. Any ideas on self spanking or self bondage will be appreciated. I would call myself interested in medium intensity spanking. I like tools such as paddles and belts and not things like canes.

Maybe even if someone could, just for fun, instruct me on a spanking scene and I will carry out the punishment on myself...That may be a lot to ask so if not that if fine to.

Thank you very much for your time!
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Spankmeplease
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Username: Spankmeplease

Post Number: 2
Registered: 11-2008
Posted on Sunday, November 30, 2008 - 12:42 am:   Edit Post

I'm sorry. Upon further exploration of the site, I see that self spanking has been discussed already...But if anyone wants to offer some instructions on how many times to spank myself, or something similar, it would still be appreciated.
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Atomicpuppy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy

Post Number: 202
Registered: 08-2006


Posted on Sunday, November 30, 2008 - 10:43 am:   Edit Post

Hello,

What you have written does remind me what I was like.
Even when I got a partner, I was still very nervous in discussing it with her.

Anyway, when by myself I found that it was erotic and a craving that needed to be fulfilled. So self-spanking started.

Personally I preferred the strap/strop or a rubber-soled slipper. A lot of the time I used both. Slipper first as a warm up and then the Strap.
It's very difficult to spank yourself too hard. I found that the strap would hurt enough for me to take notice.
It was a case of swing and smack. Started steady, for aim, then increased force. Normally I would have a set number and would not stop until that number was reached.

You can make up any reason why you need a spanking. Any room in the house/flat,etc can be used, just be careful.

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