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Straddlinnpaddlin
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Username: Straddlinnpaddlin

Post Number: 15
Registered: 11-2006
Posted on Tuesday, November 14, 2006 - 07:35 pm:   Edit Post

Hi "sub" ladies. I am curious about how you discovered that you desired to be spanked? Did you think of it while you had some idle time and your man was away? Did you discover it completely by accident? I am interested in what triggered your desire.
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Ladygator2904
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Username: Ladygator2904

Post Number: 294
Registered: 03-2006


Posted on Tuesday, November 14, 2006 - 09:06 pm:   Edit Post

I discovered it by accident when I was 29 yrs of age. I was reading articles in my husbands playboy. I read an erotic one about spanking and I noticed I got really HOT! I told hubby as soon as he got home from work, he was happy to try it :-)
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Straddlinnpaddlin
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Username: Straddlinnpaddlin

Post Number: 16
Registered: 11-2006
Posted on Tuesday, November 14, 2006 - 10:28 pm:   Edit Post

A lady that looks at Playboy...very nice. Thanks for sharing how you started ladygator.
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Pinkcheeks
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Username: Pinkcheeks

Post Number: 973
Registered: 12-2005


Posted on Wednesday, November 15, 2006 - 06:06 am:   Edit Post

Hi Straddlin :-)

I only discovered spanking about 4 years ago - and hubby and I have been married for 31 years! I happened to be searching the web and found some sites - the more I read about spanking, the more interested I became (and the more I realized that it was something I wanted and needed).

I was wayyyyyyyyy to embarrassed to tell him - I figured he would think I can gone off my rocker!-my hubby is a sweet, kind, vanilla kinda guy. He would NEVER even THINK to spank me. One day I finally got up the nerve to talk to him about it, and I copied some very good articles about domestic discipline spanking from some very good websites..............

It took lots of conversations, experimenting, and honesty to come into this lifestyle, but it has made such a difference in our relationship. :-)
"Do I have to be good ALL the time?"
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Straddlinnpaddlin
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Username: Straddlinnpaddlin

Post Number: 18
Registered: 11-2006
Posted on Wednesday, November 15, 2006 - 01:19 pm:   Edit Post

Pink, thanks for the insight and glad it has made a positive difference for you and husband.
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Chinnook
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Username: Chinnook

Post Number: 2
Registered: 11-2006
Posted on Wednesday, November 15, 2006 - 02:02 pm:   Edit Post

Hello Straddin,

I have always had fantasies for as long as I can remember. I can remember though looking at some articles in Playboy also and then I went to the internet, I was so turned on by the whole thing I just had to try it. My b/f now knew I was kinky just after we got to know each other. I have always had hand and ankle cuffs. But the problem was I had experimented with other b/f's but he had never done any such thing with any of his other g/f's but he was game. But there was still one problem yet we were living with relatives and couldn't experiment until just recently. We are still in the experimenting stage but so far so good!!!!
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Straddlinnpaddlin
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Post Number: 20
Registered: 11-2006
Posted on Wednesday, November 15, 2006 - 05:51 pm:   Edit Post

Living with relatives, ouch! Been there, done that and I can relate. Thx tho for letting me know how u got started.
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Katie_spades
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Username: Katie_spades

Post Number: 778
Registered: 11-2005


Posted on Thursday, November 16, 2006 - 03:20 am:   Edit Post

I think it was something I just always knew I was interested in or at least curious about.
The Princess of Spanking™
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Prissietl
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Username: Prissietl

Post Number: 71
Registered: 07-2006


Posted on Thursday, November 16, 2006 - 07:27 am:   Edit Post

Me to katie, It is something that has always been there, but the internet let me know i was not crazy or sick or alone.
Wonderful thing the internet!!!!
I just decided im old enough and have been married long enough (almost 20 yrs) i should get what i want..................and now i do!
Once a princess always a princess
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Katie_spades
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Username: Katie_spades

Post Number: 781
Registered: 11-2005


Posted on Thursday, November 16, 2006 - 04:54 pm:   Edit Post

LOL, me too!!! I thought I was a total wierdo, LOL... now only a little bit, LOL...
The Princess of Spanking™
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Blushingbride
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Username: Blushingbride

Post Number: 24
Registered: 10-2006
Posted on Thursday, November 16, 2006 - 06:20 pm:   Edit Post

Add me to the list of "always wanted this" but didn't really do anything about it til the last few months. Mostly due to the embarassment factor, and the fear that my sweetie would think I had gone koo koo.
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Emithe1
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Post Number: 2
Registered: 11-2006
Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 02:13 pm:   Edit Post

I am just discovering this about myself and very excited in more ways than one.

My problem is finding men who understand my submissive side without taking advantage of me.
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Docben
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Username: Docben

Post Number: 47
Registered: 08-2005
Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 02:40 pm:   Edit Post

Hey Emithe,

My ex-g/f and I started to get into spanking with a little "slap and tickle" during foreplay. After a couple of time of "teasing", it progressed to full spankings, and then, just for fun we started to role-play. It's just tough finding women would want to play.

(Message edited by docben on November 21, 2006)
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Ma_vie_en_rose
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Username: Ma_vie_en_rose

Post Number: 299
Registered: 01-2006


Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 04:19 pm:   Edit Post

I've kind of always been interested too. I guess I'm a bit of a lifer. ;)
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Slipperings
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Username: Slipperings

Post Number: 24
Registered: 10-2006
Posted on Thursday, November 23, 2006 - 02:56 pm:   Edit Post

Maybe a new subject on this one..When did you GUY find out you were into this...Just a idea..
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Tammynx
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Username: Tammynx

Post Number: 1517
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Thursday, November 23, 2006 - 03:46 pm:   Edit Post

Slipperings why don't you start a new thread?
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Superbrat
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Username: Superbrat

Post Number: 15
Registered: 11-2006
Posted on Monday, November 27, 2006 - 01:43 am:   Edit Post

I must be he weirdest. I was very, very young. Edited due to underage references. That fed my fantasy for years until I got my first boyfriend to spank me when I was about 19 I think.
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Admin
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Username: Admin

Post Number: 73
Registered: 03-2005


Posted on Monday, November 27, 2006 - 02:02 pm:   Edit Post

Reminder to all, please keep all discussions about adult, consensual spanking experiences. Any mention of spankings involving minors (including memories of your own experiences before you reached the age of 18) will be edited.

Thank you!
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Freetobeme
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Username: Freetobeme

Post Number: 3
Registered: 11-2006
Posted on Monday, November 27, 2006 - 03:52 pm:   Edit Post

I really don't know what triggered my interest in being spanked.
But I would fantasize about being spanked by a girl friend, or mother figure or from a boyfriend.
I even had awesome dreams of doing finding myself being placed over a lap for a spanking.
Now I have wonderful husband to fulfill these needs.
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Superbrat
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Username: Superbrat

Post Number: 19
Registered: 11-2006
Posted on Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 02:04 am:   Edit Post

Sorry Admin....that's a hard one to remember. I can certainly see the element you are keeping out of here and I certainly appreciate it. Will have to think about responses to questions like that when it involves memories.
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Misspanked
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Username: Misspanked

Post Number: 1
Registered: 12-2006


Posted on Tuesday, December 12, 2006 - 01:13 am:   Edit Post

Although I've never had any specific experiences or a certain 'date' that I can pin it on, my interest in spanking has always been a part of me. I can't remember a time when I wasn't excited about the idea!
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Meilong
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Username: Meilong

Post Number: 2
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Tuesday, December 12, 2006 - 03:18 am:   Edit Post

What an interesting series of answers. Thanks everyone.

But what interests me is that none of the respondents got an interest in spanking by being spanked as a child, or spanked in school. That's against all the theories I have heard about.
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Admin
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Username: Admin

Post Number: 74
Registered: 03-2005


Posted on Tuesday, December 12, 2006 - 12:34 pm:   Edit Post

Meilong, please see my above post about underage spanking references.
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Tammynx
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Username: Tammynx

Post Number: 1570
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Tuesday, December 12, 2006 - 04:19 pm:   Edit Post

Misspanked I could have said that better myself!!

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